Thursday, January 26, 2006

Part Three

Now let me clarify something which my bug some of you. I am a capitalist. I am not against commerce. One only needs to look at history to see how capitalism works where socialism does not. (I know a few people who think they are socialists, but their way of living gives them away.) If you take away a reward system in commerce, the kinds of people who dream big will not pursue their dreams and jobs will not be created and eventually all will suffer in a manner not unlike what happened in the Soviet Union. I think God can use rich people and poor people and you don’t have to look very far to see examples of both. Remember, our perspective on who is “rich” and who is not is pretty skewed in our society. Wealth is not the enemy; irresponsibility is. Rather, the keys to this discussion are more likely motivation and application.

What is one’s motivation in doing what they do? Is it only to attain wealth? There are many doctors and businessmen and inventors and on and on who have been motivated by a desire to help human-kind and in so doing have also achieved great wealth. I am at a loss in how to find fault in those motives. However, there are also many people of means who chose their occupation solely based on the potential income it might provide. I doubt that God wants material blessings to be such a strong motivation (no offense to all you Jabez fans).

Like we discussed in the last post, the question of motivation is not merely a matter of why we make money but also of why we spend it the way we do. I must reiterate that this is a core part of truly denying ourselves and following Christ if we are really motivated to do so. Though it is so often ignored in our society, the concept of opportunity cost is such a crucial consideration in this discussion, which brings us right to application.

How do we apply our faith to our spending? How do we integrate Christ-like living into our finances? Is it as cut-and-dried as Dave Ramsey suggests on his radio program? I doubt it. While I agree with him on some things, there are other things with which I do not agree. For instance, he suggests that getting out of debt is such a critical need that one should work multiple jobs and refuse any and all excesses to accomplish the task as quickly as possible. I have heard callers argue that they want time with their kids and his response is that their kids will learn financial lessons that are more important than attention. I do not think the two are mutually exclusive. I think debt retirement is important but time well-spent is more so. In John 12, Christ’s feet were anointed with an extremely expensive perfume in what some said was a financially irresponsible display. However, Mary may have understood that the value of fleeting time with someone she dearly loved outweighed the opportunity cost mentioned in verse 5.

So with a moving target like this, how are we supposed to know how to properly handle our finances? Well, it is not necessarily easy to identify the absolutely correct way to do anything and it is harder still to implement it. That is why we need to be steadfast in encouraging one another instead of fostering an environment that only makes financial irresponsibility more likely. It seems like you can’t swing a dead cat without hitting someone that is in a support group for something- sex, eating disorders, anger, addictions, and more. But how many support groups are out there wherein people can talk out their frustrations over money or find strength to overcome temptations of financial irresponsibility? There are not many. How often do we talk about it as a sermon topic? Not very often. When do brag to our friends about how we resisted the urge to purchase some luxury? Seldom.

Maybe that should change.

While I cannot pretend to be a money expert, as a former banker I have seen debt ruin many people and I have counseled several friends in financial trouble. Sometimes the counsel is nothing more than encouragement to stay strong, sometimes it has involved formulating a plan to get back on track. Still, I struggle and try to resist the temptation to measure up to the people around me. Luckily, I am married to someone who is very grounded and extremely wise (except for the one obvious exception where she agreed to marry me).

But I also have these suggestions. First, I recommend a little book called “The Richest Man in Babylon.” It is a very easy read that presents healthy financial advice in story form. Second, I would be more than happy for anyone to use this blog as an open forum wherein anyone can seek input or encouragement. I allow anonymous comments if that helps. And don’t worry if the post has nothing to do with your concern. Leave a comment and maybe the half-dozen or so people who read this can air things out and serve as a helpful community to one another. If that does not interest you, I encourage you to find a small group of trusted acquaintances with whom you can work things through.

I think this topic is a cancer that is being ignored and as a result is spreading. It need no longer distract us from matters of true importance to the kingdom if we are able to do something about it.

6 Comments:

Blogger Donna G said...

I like the fact that you are doing this. I have found that it is very hard for people to talk about money. You feel intimidated by people who have more and you feel guilty when talking to those who have less.

I love "The Richest Man in Babylon" I truly need to go back and re-read it.

Friday, January 27, 2006 6:53:00 AM  
Blogger Peggy N Texas said...

Many years ago, we knew we were in financial trouble when we were living on credit cards. We could not get to the end of the month and make it with our salaries.

We prayed and read about what to do. I read a book and for the life of me I can't remember the name of it, but it really gave a step by step way to get out of debt. (I think the author was Ron Blue)

The first thing we did was to melt our credit cards. We placed them all on a cookie sheet and cooked them. That was truly one of the scariest moments of my life. I then proceeded to send a proposal to all our creditors and show them our budget and our plan on how we would repay them and get out of debt. I was very honest as to where we stood financially and spiritually, saying it was our belief in God and his love that demanded we pay our debts.

Except for one credit card company, all would work with me and give us any where from 6-9 months interest free and my reduced payment. Because of the one credit card company who would not respond to my requests, we made plans to go to a credit counseling agency.

In a Friday night at 9pm I got a call from this credit card company stating he was a manager and had just received my proposal on his desk that day. He would be happy to work with us and indeed gave us 9 months interest free with my reduced payment as well.

The rep at the agency told us she could not do any better for us and was in fact shocked that the companies had agreed to work with us.

We were able to pay each creditor off and we have excellent credit now. We only use credit cards occasionally and pay them off as we go. We still have a small amount of debt, besides our home and are working to get that paid as well.

The freedom that comes from getting finanacial security is wonderful. We are now free to help others. We have contributed more in the last month to college students who are going on campaigns. It is a good feeling to help them. Always before, we just had to say no.

By the financial world, we are still not financially secure. We don't have a large savings and we still have some debt, but we are in much better shape than we were and are still working on it.

I am learning to say no to purchases that I just want and don't necessarily need.

It is a hard lesson to learn in our society of wealth!

Friday, January 27, 2006 10:24:00 AM  
Blogger Clint said...

Part of the problem is our society. When a golfer can by a $36 million house so his 155 ft yacht can fit and people look up to that and want to emulate that as success, it is hard to be humble. I do not believe it is the amount of $ we have but what it does to us. We are called to have the mind of Christ. That is hard when it comes to $. As for as I know Jesus only got what he needed (seek first the kingdom). We to believe this, only we deceive our selves into believing that we need things we truly do not. There are those among us who live as Jesus did but you do not see them being held up and admired or even considered to be elders in the church. The amount of $ we make is a major indicator to how good we are. It is even an indicator to weather we are blessed by God. Ambition it seems is a Godly virtue. It is hard to walk as Jesus in the Wood’s of this world. I pray that I never stop trying and the Grace of God covers me.

Val thanks for the discussion. This is one of my major struggles and it is good to be able to work it out with you and others.

Friday, January 27, 2006 10:39:00 AM  
Blogger Arlene Kasselman said...

I remember David Wray's wise counsel years ago when he told the story of forming an accountability group to discuss purchases with. Instead of him and Jeannie deciding they needed some "big purchase" they took it to the group and asked the group to work through it with them. Obviously this was for bigger purchases and they a predetermined limit. What I love about this is the real community it shows. It reflects responsibility to the larger faith community and vulnerability too. Wow.

Saturday, January 28, 2006 11:40:00 AM  
Blogger Jenny said...

Thanks Val on the comment you left on our blog.

Great post and very good points on all of this financial stuff. I'll come on back and look for more soon. This subject is my ministry.

Brett Perkins

Tuesday, January 31, 2006 8:29:00 AM  
Blogger David Michael said...

I enjoyed reading your posts.

It doesn't make sense to me to be anti-capitalist. It seems this message often comes from left-wing politicians and non profit groups who are dependent on the fruits of capitalism for their existence.

Instead of complaining of the wealthy getting tax cuts, why don't we encourage the wealthy to give to the needy on their own? Just think how few hospitals or educational institutions we would have in this country if it wasn't for the wealthy.

Friday, February 24, 2006 10:28:00 AM  

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